[cmamad id=”4453″ align=”center” tabid=”display-desktop” mobid=”display-desktop” stg=””]There are researchers that study arousal, and we love them for it.
We can learn a lot about how to have a healthy sex life because of these pioneering researchers!
In the past, they inserted a device in a woman’s private parts, or around a man’s member, and they used that to determine arousal.
They would test to see what sort of material would arouse a woman or a man.
When a man would become even a little excited, his member would get just a little bit fatter.
The device around his member was able to measure that.
For women, they would insert this device into her privates.
Then they would look for the signs of female sexual arousal.
When she would get just a little wet, the device would register the moisture as arousal.
However, these researchers came up with a much better way of measuring arousal.
This led to a shocking discovery about arousal.
I think this is something that will interest you a great deal.
It sure interested me.
So it may have a very boring title, but it’s an exceedingly interesting study:
The first part of what they discovered is that even a tiny increase in temperature in the private areas can be measured.
Measuring this increase in temperature is called thermography.
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And it can be easily be measured without the intrusive devices that I talked about earlier in this newsletter.
This increase in temperature happens when men or women are even the slightest bit aroused.
They can measure even the slightest sexual stimulation.
So with that, they started showing erotic materials to men and women.
The intention was to figure out what makes men and women aroused.
One of the things that we all believed in the past is that women get aroused slower than men do.
But it turns out that this is not exactly true.
Both men and women required about 10 minutes to become aroused.
However, women will get a little wet even if the material is not particularly arousing, but involve sex.
It could be sex between women, sex between men and women, or even sex with monkeys.
Women may not even be aware of the arousal.
But their privates become just a little bit wet and a little bit inflamed with arousal.
And it is in reaction to any kind of sex or sexual situation, whether it’s erotic or not.
Men, on the other hand, only get aroused for the material that they actually find sexually arousing.
It makes sense, right?
The reaction is used as a protective mechanism for women.
Because if a woman is going to be assaulted sexually, or there is even a chance of that, she should be a bit wet to prevent damage.
But men have no such problem.
So that is why women can actually be slightly aroused even if they don’t realize it.
And why they can be physically aroused by material that they do not find arousing.
Just so long as sex is involved.
Our results suggest that there are no differences between men and women in length of time to peak sexual arousal during the erotic condition. Men averaged 11 minutes 5 seconds to recorded peak genital temperature, whereas women had an average of 12 minutes 23 seconds.
How does this information help us?
The most obvious way is to relieve some of the pressure during sex on the woman to “get ready” for sex.
I think it makes a lot of sense to lay with your partner naked and build up sexual energy for at least 10 or 15 minutes.
Not only are you assured she’s ready, but it also makes the entry part easier.
It also makes you both harder and also more able to sustain longer periods of intercourse.
It’s a big mistake to enter her earlier even if she’s wet.
That isn’t in this study, but that’s something that I found in my other studies.
But from this study, we know now that women get aroused just as quickly as men do.
What a surprise!
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2006.00399.x/full
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