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Dating with problems down there?
I work with a lot of guys who have performance issues…
And one of the toughest things to deal with if you are in this situation and single…
…is to figure out how to start dating again.
It’s terrifying for lots of men.
Dating with erections problems can seem almost impossible, especially if performance problems happen most often with a partner.
That’s why I usually recommend that guys start out with less threatening environments than a “date.”
If you want to recover from erections and performance issues, it’s super important to get out with real people and not just stare at dating sites (which can be incredibly destructive).
One of the ways to do that is by volunteering.
It also happens to help make people happy and live longer.
Wiring Your Brain (and Penis) to a Computer Screen Isn’t Good For You
I know this sounds weird, and I’m not going to go into it in huge detail here…
…but the basics are that men’s bodies are meant to be “ready” when sex is available.
Historically, this has been sex with a real woman who is directly in our vicinity.We were never meant to be able to see multiple images of women, one right after another.
This can be porn or dating sites; it doesn’t matter much.
But it can screw up the way your brain talks with your member and can mess up your chances of recovering from erections problems.I’m not saying to never use dating sites, but if you are going to use them…
…you want to be meeting with real women in real life as quickly as possible.
Spend as little time as possible scrolling through images.
Volunteering Can Help You Meet Women in Real Life
Volunteering can help solve part of this problem of not being sure how to meet new people (especially women).
If you choose a volunteer situation that has single women also volunteering alongside you, then you can meet women and interact with women in real life.
They don’t have to be dating or sex partners.
Just getting around real women can help to rewire your brain/penile connection again.
It’s amazing how much this can help.
Volunteering Can Improve Your Health
Another HUGE benefit of volunteering is that it can help improve your health.
The results verify that adults over 50 who volunteer for at least 100 hours a year (about two hours per week) have a substantially reduced risk of mortality and developing physical limitations, higher levels of subsequent physical activity, and improved sense of well-being later on compared to individuals who do not volunteer.
It decreases the risk of dying and improves physical limitations.
It can also make you feel good about yourself, which can help give you more confidence to date.
“Our results show that volunteerism among older adults doesn’t just strengthen communities, but enriches our own lives by strengthening our bonds to others, helping us feel a sense of purpose and well-being, and protecting us from feelings of loneliness, depression, and hopelessness. Regular altruistic activity reduces our risk of death even though our study didn’t show any direct impact on a wide array of chronic conditions.”
If you are dealing with performance issues and want to start dating again (even if you aren’t fully “recovered”)…
…volunteering can be a good option to get back out there and start meeting new people.
Rockiness problems don’t have to last forever…
And even if you are one of the rare guys that has a medical condition where it will, it doesn’t mean you can’t have sex.
There are many ways I share on how to have a fulfilling intimate relationship with a woman, no matter what.
So never give up hope!
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And then I discovered desensitization, something that happens to a lot of men…
Desensitization is when the brain and the male member stop communicating as well, and the connection between them gets weakened.
This results in less pleasure from physical intimacy and less feeling down there overall.
And I realized that “those movies” make desensitization worse and suck men’s sexual energy right out of them.
So I started figuring out a way to return sensitivity to my member and fix this brain-penile connection.
And the way to do it is to practice these 3 simple solo activities…
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